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June 2015

Making Missionary; Why The Missionary Position Should Never Be Boring

The good old missionary position is often referred to as the ‘meat loaf and mashed potatoes’ of the sexual experience. In other words, it is the standard position for lovemaking – with the woman flat on her back below and the man with a straightened torso above. It is the position in which the vast majority of people have sex for the very first time, because it is extremely simple. However, such simplicity does not have to translate to a boring encounter. If used correctly, the missionary position can be a very powerful tool in your sexual arsenal.

The following tips and tricks will help you to make sex in the missionary position something which the both of you start to really look forward to.

Appreciate the Intimacy – One of the best things about the missionary position is that it allows two partners to get very close and intimate. You can stare deeply into the eyes of a lover, tenderly kiss their face, and even continue touching and playing whilst having sex. If the position is slightly modified so that the man can rest on his knees and free his hands, he can caress the breasts of his lover.

Think About Angles – For women particularly, the missionary position can be treated as an excuse to have really rather lazy sex and let the man do all the work. This would be fine if so many women did not than complain about this kind of sex being distinctly unmemorable. If you want to take things to the next level and have an experience to remember, you have to contribute. The best way to do this is to give yourself some leverage by placing a pillow beneath your bottom. You will be amazed at the difference this makes to the sensation of penetration.

Lift Those Legs – The very last thing that you want to do, as a woman, is have sex in the missionary position with your legs completely straight. This is not even close to the most comfortable or pleasurable way to have sex, so bend your knees and lift your legs upwards with your feet flat on the mattress. Or, for even deeper penetration, wrap your legs around the waist of your partner and rest them on his buttocks.

Close It Up – Nobody said that you had to have sex with your legs spread wide to enjoy the missionary position. In fact, penetration at a sharper angle can result in increased pressure on the clitoris, which enhances the overall sensation for the woman. If the legs of the woman are closed, her vagina tightens around the penis, resulting in more intense stimulation. It is important to take cues from your partner when trying anything new, so that you know they are not in any discomfort.

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