I have just come back from coffee with my friend Lucy. Lucy works as part of a unique sexy London escort service and I used work for the same London escorts agency, so obviously we know each other pretty well. In the last couple of months Lucy has started a new relationship with a crazy Italian guy. He is lovely but Lucy says that he gets really excited by wild sex. Everything has to be done with such passion and making love has to be a wild experience all the time. Sometimes Lucy says that it just gets to be a little bit too much.
I can understand how Lucy feels. Wild sex is great but do we need to have it all the time. Having worked for the same London escorts agency means that we can speak quite honestly with each other and it sounds like Lucy is getting rather tired of her Italian stallion, I think I would feel the same by now as well. Not all London escorts want to swing from the chandlers all the time with their boyfriends. Sometimes it is nice to have a man with a bit of a slow hand and I am glad that I have one of those at home.
I am sure that most men like to make love very passionately but for us ladies it doesn’t quite work. The problem is that most men are rearing to go at a moments notice, but we take a little bit longer to get there. It is the same for most ladies even for former London escorts. We need to be cuddled and kissed, not just a quick wham, bam and thank you mam. All ladies, including London escorts, appreciate being made love to and a man who knows that good sex starts before the bedroom.
Good sex does indeed start before the bedroom. Kissing and cuddling on the sofa is just as important to us ladies and made passionate love.
My friend Lucy says that the moment she kisses her Italian stallion, she is in bed. This is not what London escorts need when they come home from a long hard day at work. What most London escorts need is a Gin and Tonic and a foot massage after wearing those high stilettos all day. It is just nice to be able to sit down and talk about the day, and eventually see how things progress.
Passion and wild sex are both important factors of any relationship but it is equally important to be able to take your time. A couples massage could be a nice way to kick off some loving action with but sadly most men seldom have time for that sort of thing. The human touch is very important and we all need it. Just touching each other without losing control is nice but for most men it seems to take some doing. Perhaps the most important thing men can learn is patience when it comes to passion in the bedroom.